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Separation Period in Marriage

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Q: I am married now for 15 years and have two sons. Due to ongoing arguments between us because of my wife’s past I want to take time to figure out my thoughts. I don’t want to divorce her but heard that if you separate for more than three months the nikkah (marriage) breaks. What is the allowed period of time we can separate? I have no intention to divorce her I just need time to gather my thoughts and calm my mind.

A: A separation of any amount of time does not break the Nikah, even if it is years.

Suggestion: Mutually agree to a stipulated amount of time.
Ensure that all their needs are fulfilled during your separation.
Keep a check on their well-being.
May Allah Ta’aala grant reconciliation, harmony and understanding, Aameen.

Moulana Yusuf Laher


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