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Pls take time read this, i know it is long, but i need the help, i wrote it in the comments area, and plz try answer me rite away, when u read it u will know why, im afraid i will die b4 i get this

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, i need help please, the guy i had this cursed relationship wont leave me alone, he wont rest until he marries me, if i refuse to marry him, he will tell my parents about the past, i dont know what to do, to marry him to shut him up, but i cant marry him, he says he will learn religion, but i dont know,he cant pray or read araby, plese give me advice of what should i do, i feel sorry for this guy, i really had good intentions to help him read, i just wish he can leave me alone and find help if he really wants it, eveything in his life is wrong, his family and relatives, im worried about him, and that makes me very emotional towards him, i wanna help him but i cant do that becuz i know my father will never agree and u cant learn araby in one night and one day, its takes years, but i feel this is my punishment for being wiht him behind my parents back, for agreeing to the bad things he wanted to do, please please write me back soon, i need to know how to handle this and take control of it, what do i tell this guy, please pray for me adn email me back, i feel if i marry another, i must tell him what ive done, that im not a virgin, but i dont know how, and im afraid he mite leave me for that or throughout our marriage he will remind me of it and put me down salam May God have mercy on me

Answer

May Allah Ta’ala assist you in your predicament, Aameen.

You should not succumb to the pressure of the person threatening to inform
your parents of your illicit relationship with him. We advise you bring up
the courage and apply wisdom in communicating your difficulty with your both
parents, or either one, with whosoever you are more comfortable and
gradually confess your past with them. That will enable you to avert the
pressure from you. Feeling sorry for the person is no reason for you to
marry him. You should seek the advise of your parents as well as make
Istikhaara before deciding on the matter.

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.

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