I have been married for seven years. Three kids now. But we have always had problems and they get worse. We don’t communicate at all-just the necessary stuff. My husband is manipulative and I used to succumb but now I have started resisting. He wants me to fail in my endeavors. He insults me at the slightest opportunity-says I am not mar’atussaliha (a pious woman). We disagree about many important things. He never agrees to learning or trying to change things or going for counseling. He does not want to try. Many times I feel like leaving him but my only concern is how my kids will fare. Do I have the right to keep them even if I do female divorce-Khula? The oldest is six.